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Why do some people not see you in a car?

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Tinkobell · 15/03/2018 19:19

Have you ever noticed that some people just seem to never see others including best mates ...when you are sitting behind the windscreen? It's really really weird!

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ShirleyPhallus · 15/03/2018 19:19

Cos the glass becomes one-way with the light, like a fishbowl?

ShinyMe · 15/03/2018 19:21

It's really tricky sometimes to see into a car when you're outside it! It drives me up the wall when I'm driving and I realise other drivers are waving their arms around to gesture that I can pull in - if the light's at the wrong angle or your windows are a bit tinted, or you know I'M LOOKING AT CARS AND THE ROAD RATHER THAN INSIDE YOUR CAR then I can't bloody see you pointing at me.

brownelephant · 15/03/2018 19:21

maybe they are concentrating on the traffic hopeful

TroysMammy · 15/03/2018 19:23

My car has a button to make it invisible. Or may be there's a load of arseholes on the road who take risks. If I caused an accident it would spoil my day but these dickheads don't seem to care.

IAmWonkoTheSane · 15/03/2018 19:23

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Tinkobell · 15/03/2018 19:24

No. I'm talking all manner of situations. But the weirdest is if you are stationary in your vehicle, sitting there, broad daylight.....it's like some people have a kind of in-car blindness. I've noticed a lot of people suffer with it.

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aNutAboveTheBreast · 15/03/2018 19:27

I don't recognise cars or pay much attention to them other than making sure I don't get hit by one. My friend always moans she's beeped at me and I haven't seen her. I'm not sure how I could! She's going much faster than me, I had no reason to expect to see her, and the sun is reflecting off of her windscreen.

LeighaJ · 15/03/2018 19:31

I rarely ever try to look inside at other people in their cars whether I'm in a car or walking, I'm usually focused on things related to safety.

I'd honestly find it rather creepy if I noticed someone was staring at me in my car.

Tinkobell · 15/03/2018 19:31

Recently, I pulled up at DS school car park - quite early. A Dad was there. He did a quick visual sweep of the carpark - seemingly no one around, before proceeding to stick hand down inside back of trousers for lengthy arse scratch. I never shook that guys hand!!! 😫

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NeeChee · 15/03/2018 19:48

I have a photographic memory for car registrations. So I find it easy to recognise cars that belong to friends and family.
I can recall the number plate of every car I've ever owned/driven. Is that weird?

MyRelationshipIsWeird · 15/03/2018 20:25

I don't think most people would recognise you if you were in a random car, it's only because they recognise your car first, then check the reg then see that it's you! I saw my ex in a car park the other day and it was only because I checked the reg that I realised this was the guy whose eyes I'd lovingly looked into for 5 years!

FuckyDucky · 15/03/2018 20:27

neechee me too! DH tells me I’m weird.

FuckyDucky · 15/03/2018 20:29

I can remember my first car reg from 19yrs ago. Most people I know can’t recall their current one.
I used to be really good with phone numbers too before the days of mobiles.

Ladybirdbookworm · 15/03/2018 21:40

Omg this is me .....apparently I passed my DS last week driving out of our road ( she was driving in) and never noticed her waving like mad . I must have been going 5mph.
I am not the best driver so I just concentrate really hard live in a dream world

FifiVoldemortsChavvyCousin · 15/03/2018 21:45

I can’t see into cars and don’t recognise carsConfused. A form of face blindness?

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