To worry about meeting old friend?

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I know this is silly, but I am meeting an old friend that I literally have not seen for 20 years. I looked for her on face book, and she has wrinkles, but looks much the same. I on the other hand have got fat and have a full head of grey hair. I am looking forward to meeting her again, but also dreading her seeing how I look.

I'm sure she is thinking the same. She's probably looked at pictures of you and thinks you look the same whereas she has got wrinkles or something similar. She probably won't notice any weight you have gained and you probably won't be noticing how she looks. Hope you have a good time!

I haven't got my photo on my profile.

Ok, she's probably still looking at her wrinkles and wondering if you'll notice them though.

Oh OP go for it. You can bet you’ll look the same as ever to her and you’ll talk as if no time has passed! She will not be judging you on a few wrinkles and extra pounds

Neither of you will notice. Don't worry, rekindling old friendships is life affirming.