They get a bad press don't they? I'm not saying im going to give up on looking good altogether but i gave a problem tummy. Im size 12/14 but have that csection overhang.
I just find trousers and skirts with normal waistbands so uncomfortable.
I love harem pants, jeggings etc . I prefer the look of jeans etc( on others) but find them hugely irritating to wear.