Can't take anymore- UPDATE

[icanttakeit]

Not a Aibu, but I'm posting my update here as this is where I originally posted.

My previous thread about my arsehole of a STBXH, was full of incredibly supportive replies and gave me the massive push I needed to LTB.

I have moved in with my parents for the foreseeable future, my older dc have settled into their new school far quicker than I expected and I have a job! I start a week tomorrow. Who would have thought it?!

No more abuse, being called names, crying myself to sleep every night. I feel like a new woman!

FANTASTIC - brilliant news

Congratulations, you will get stronger and stronger each day and what you have achieved is amazing! Well done you!

That is fantastic news, Well done for being so bloody brave!

I didn't see your other thread OP but just wanted to say a huge well done and best of luck for the future. Brilliant update.

Whoop whoop!!!

What a warm thing to read before bed. Well done. You're a hero. I don't say that lightly.

Well done. You’ve been very brave and it sounds like you’ve landed on your feet. X

Well done. A great new start to your future. Keep 'er lit!

Brilliant!

Thank you.

Just being able to do what I want, when I want feels so alien, but I love it.

I can't wait to be able to save my own money and buy a small home for myself and my DC, something that is ours.

Well done. I also didn’t see your original thread but this update is awesome.

Fab update. Delighted to hear it.

Well done. Onwards and upwards. Don’t look back. 💐💐💐

Fantastic! Well done you.

brilliant news, thanks for sharing, you must be feeling so much better.

You have such a lot to look forward to :)

YAY! GOLD STAR FOR YOU!!! You are so brave! I hope you and your family live happily ever after!

Well done. I didn’t read your previous thread but this is a very good thing to read. I think it might also give a bit of hope/ resolve to someone who is in a similar situation to the one you are in so important that you posted.
Good luck with your future.

Wonderful news!

Brilliant! Expect a little bit of a rollercoaster with the DCs but deep down they will be so much happier.

Well done !
I followed your previous thread.
So please MN could help.
Good Luck and enjoy your new life.

Great news, well done op

Oh that is absolutely the most wonderful update anyone could ask for!

I’m so happy for you icanttakeit. Perhaps now you can change your username to i can takeit

Brilliant!

That is fantastic. Not only have you set your children an excellent example but you will also have given hope to many others in a similar situation. Your future and your children's future looks so much brighter now. Well done.

Well done, Icanttakeit (and you don't have to any more!). I don't remember your first thread, but it has nonetheless made me so happy to read your update. You sound so strong and so positive! Well done, you, for making this happen - for your children as well as for yourself. You're a brilliant, strong woman and mother. Sky's the ruddy limit! Very best wishes from someone five years on from where you are now. xxx