My partner has started his own restaurant business, which we did not agree on but he has gone ahead anyway! For 5 months he was working 7 days a week 9am till 11pm/12 am sometimes later, he borrowed in excess of £20,000 I have no idea how much he makes but I have a feeling it's not much. We have 2 young children and obviously he hasn't seen them much-just half an hour in the morning, he has only just started taking half day off on a Sunday. I do everything for my children and am now effectively a lone parent. He has been working for both of their birthdays and significant family birthdays and Xmas. I can't get over the fact he has done this even though I said I didn't want him too as he would not see the children, would be putting us into debt (with people I don't even know) and risking a house we finally bought together. So AIBU to feel so hurt and angry? This is my first post so please be gentle-it's just all going around in my head!