So... found nits in DD9s hair last night, had nothing in to treat with & couldnt go out for stuff first thing as was waiting for engineer to fix washer. So when her dad picked her up (to stay at his for 2 nights) at 10am I told him he'd need to treat her hair. From the message I've had since you'd think I'd sent her there with the plague. If I'd said she couldnt go till I did her hair I'd have been called too. Last time I found them was Christmas night....we spent Christmas night treating hair so not like I don't bother. AIBU to send ger to her dad needing her hair treated?