To ask if anyone thinks RELATE can make a difference?

[Zippyzoppy]

Hi
Just wondering if anyone out there has used Relate and found them helpful? Did they save your marriage? Or is it a complete waste of time?

TIA

Of course it can. It can’t fix your marriage or relationship, but it can provide support and guidance from highly trained counsellors to identify key issues in your lives and relationship from both past and present and help you make changes.

A helluva lot cheaper than a divorce.

I haven't used personally, the mother of an ex boyfriend was a relate counsellor and she did help many couples. I think the marriage is going to be saved only if both sides are willing to go, be heard, listen and work on themselves. If you both want to save the marriage then undoubtedly you can but if one of you doesn't care enough, it would be like a waste of time. Plus, don't give up, you have to try all you can before throwing in the towel. Good luck.