I'm a relative noob here and can't quite get into the groove of how to use it. I spend my time refreshing "active" (now that I've read all 1.5k thread pages in relationships :D) Is that how it's meant to be done?
Can you give me a quick rundown of how you typically navigate your MN session?
As an aside... Why do people give each other the biscuit icon? I take it -it means like "you taking the biscuit mate?"