Just that really! Ive been in a professional sector for almost 14 years, qualified to highest level but really struggle in practice having had a 10 year period of working below a boss who wasnt supportive (bullying!) and therefore my practical experience and confidence suffered as a consequence. Please dont worry im not a doctor, think accountancy!
Anyway, where others are progressing through the ranks ive changed jobs and taken a demotion which in part is a lifestyle choice to fit around my DS. I cant help but feel like a failure because im not in a senior role given my years experience and high level qualification. I wonder if im just not right for this career but struggle to reflect on my strengths and where I would be successful. To be fair I do enjoy my job, I just constantly feel like I'm failing at it 
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Has anyone else had this type of dilema and how did you seek to find a role that suited you?