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Did I handle this weirdly?

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OhHeyArnold · 30/01/2018 21:48

Someone senior at work came up at me and said “we will go for that coffee at some point!” (they had offered to take me for a coffee as a departmental intro)

I didn’t know what to say so just said “sure when’s good?”

A bit of me feels like I was pressganging them into making a decision there and then?! Argh

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dollygolightly · 30/01/2018 21:49

Grin what did they say?

KarmaStar · 30/01/2018 21:49

Nothing wrong with that at all OP.you sound like an upbeat,interested member of staff.

inkandstone · 30/01/2018 21:49

Sounds OK to me. What did they say?

Allthewaves · 30/01/2018 21:50

I think that's fine. Shows your proactive and organised

Inthishouse · 30/01/2018 21:50

That's fine. You're probably over thinking this

NC4now · 30/01/2018 21:50

What makes you think you handled it badly?

OhHeyArnold · 30/01/2018 21:53

I don’t know, I just panic sometimes! Stupid I know. Yes he had a think and we settled on Friday, I said I’d send an invite through. I just genuinely don’t know how to handle work social interaction sometimes, I’m generally good socially but get very anxious and try to hide it

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TomFun · 30/01/2018 21:53

Sounds like a good response to me!

SleightOfMind · 30/01/2018 21:54

Sounds fine to me too.
They initiated it and you responded entirely appropriately.

It could have been odd if you’d reminded them about the coffee offer or answered them with a flustered, ‘Oh no, don’t worry about it that’s not necessary,’

Is there something else you think you should have said?

Idontevencareanymore · 30/01/2018 21:55

I genuinely find this tricky!

Your answer is fine, what id have done as the interest/intent was obviously there and i may forget if date isn't set then.
And I always think "yes let's arrange something soon" Is a bit brush offy so I'd say you did the correct thing!

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