To feel angry and upset with DH?

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We are TTC#1. I had a MMC in November and am going through a suspected early miscarriage again now, waiting for the inevitable to happen. This evening he has made a few little jibes saying: "you're not on song tonight are you?" "Look at you why aren't you thinking straight?" Etc. The first one is because I didn't fully load the dishwasher.

After about the fourth one I told him to shut up and went quiet. He has now moodily taken himself off to bed after telling me he was only joking. Am I overreacting to innocent comments, or was he being crass and insensitive?

Wow. You're going through your second mmc and he's goading you. He is a dick. Sorry for your losses

That's how it felt to me. I don't know how to cope and react to him behaving like this. With the first MC he was very supportive and caring, with this one he initially angrily snapped at me for not being at the local doctors surgery and tonight he's been making quips about "hoping there's nothing wrong with my brain". Even if he meant it as a joke I don't see how he can't realise he needs to be a bit kinder at the moment.

Maybe he is struggling with his own feelings about the MC and is trying to cheer you up, but is failing?
I am so sorry for your loss xx

What? How horrible! Why would he do that?