I was watching an item on ebay. It wasn't cheap but I missed it. I messaged the seller asking if they would consider doing a buy it now for the price it ended as no one had bidded on it and they relisted it. They seller responded saying someone else had also messaged them wanting it and as I messaged them first, they will give me first refusal, but at a higher price than what it ended. Aibu in thinking this is cheeky and thinking that they didn't get another message? Bit of a coincidence that we were both watching it and both missed and then both messaged.