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To just want to play a game without being harrassed?!

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TallulahBetty · 21/01/2018 17:59

Fairly new to Words with Friends. Really enjoying so far. Mostly with people I know IRL but have accepted a few challenges from randomers.

However I've received several messages from men I'm playing with, commenting on my picture, generally making advances/lewd comments/being sexist ("your words aren't bad for a girl", being serious), etc etc.

AIBU to be thoroughly depressed? Is there ANYWHERE that certain men will not try to make such comments/behaviour?

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InfiniteSheldon · 21/01/2018 18:02

Happened to me on Scrabble :(

MrFluffleBug · 21/01/2018 18:06

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MissMouseMcPhee · 21/01/2018 18:06

Me too. I hide chat function on scrabble now.

OhWhatFuckeryIsThisNow · 21/01/2018 18:15

I'm a dude, and I think I'd be happy if I had a lot of girls coming onto me oh silly us, I forgot we are supposed to be flattered with unwanted, unsolicited male attention.
I know we shouldn't have to, but when I played I made my pic and name something non gende specific. (I got casual ageism thrown into the mix too, just for variety)

TallulahBetty · 21/01/2018 18:17

I had it linked to my Facebook account, so I've severed that link and changed my photo. I dont want to block random people from challenging me, but if it comes to that, I will. What a shame. Innocent game being ruined by those who can't respect boundaries. Nowhere is safe Confused

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TallulahBetty · 21/01/2018 18:18

Ooh MissMouse I didn't realise you can hide chat? Will just do that instead

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MrrFluffleBug · 21/01/2018 18:27

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singingdetective · 21/01/2018 18:28

^ the other guy with the same user name as you??

Namechangetempissue · 21/01/2018 18:29

I had absolute filth on scrabble. I closed the chat option.

TallulahBetty · 21/01/2018 18:32

*MrrFluffleBug

I agree with the other guy, I'd be only too happy if girls were nice/flattering towards me.*

Yeah that's TOTALLY another guy rather than you agreeing wirh yourself, isn't it Grin

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DaphneCanDoBetterThanFred · 21/01/2018 18:35

A man, yet again, missing the point that women aren't attracted to random, sleazy, creepy unattractive men? It's almost like they're really thick and/or desperate or something Grin

(I love how when they say they'd be flattered because they're imagining all these gorgeous women coming onto them - yeah, no. Not happening Grin )

MrrFluffleBug · 21/01/2018 18:45

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TallulahBetty · 21/01/2018 18:46

So it wasnt you, but it's another guy with a username just one letter different from yours? Hmm

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MrrFluffleBug · 21/01/2018 18:48

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Ratspit · 21/01/2018 18:48

This is hilarious!

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TheViceOfReason · 21/01/2018 18:50

And it's all about what YOU want eh MrrFluffleBug?

Maybe we just want to play word games without getting chatted up by losers looking for someone to massage their ego?

It's REALLY not hard to understand. Unless you are spectacularly dense.

Though if you think that by adding another "r" into your username that you can pretend to be a different user agreeing with your first post.... yes you really are that thick aren't you!

TheViceOfReason · 21/01/2018 18:51

And you ARE the creepy dude bothering women. Just FYI.

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Ratspit · 21/01/2018 18:51

Jump right in, Mr/rflufflebug, post away...

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ExploryRory · 21/01/2018 18:54

Sorry but I’d just have to reply:
Scrabble these letters: CFUK FOF Grin

metalmum15 · 21/01/2018 18:54

I'm just getting the swing of things

Yeah I bet you are. Shame no one else is interested. Sign yourself up to a dating site instead.

bastardkitty · 21/01/2018 18:56

Scrabble is filth-free these days. You can't identify the opponent, you can't choose your opponent (you either play a friend or a randomer) and chat won't send any rude words.

SilverBirchWithout · 21/01/2018 18:58

According to MrrFluffleBum (sic) I wonder how old I need to get before randoms on the internet leave me alone? At 59 can I hope it will stop soon?
#ageistaswellassexistand thick