I ask as I often leave MSN messenger on in the evenings, and yesterday DH was working on the computer and I came in to find him browsing my emails. He nonchalently said that he often does and that I shouldn't care.
I'd never read his, and I have nothing to hide but some of the things I email friends about I just would prefer him not to see. To me it feels almost the same as if he was listening in on a girls night out.
On the plus side he now knows that I can't bear having to practically drag him out of bed for work every morning, and that that he really shouldn't come supermarket shopping with me anymore (He spends 10/15 minutes in the electrical and cd department then comes and finds me and whines at me to hurry up).
I just don't like that he may have seen some personal things I have been talking to friends about, particularly one who is going through a messy divorce.
So, do you read your OH's emails, and would you be upset if they read yours?