Godammit! Don't be nice

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If you're on my shitlist .

I'm the pta class rep this year. A parent has been on my shitlist since nursery 2 years ago for being a tool of epic proportions. He's just sent me a very nice email thanking me for being the class rep and organising the teacher and TA's presents. He's either fucking with me or has been taken over by aliens. It's very discombobulating.

And clearly this is semi lighthearted.

Are you an actual grown-up? Or a thirteen year old?

"a shitlist"??

For real?

Grudge holding. Very mature. You sound well cut out for the pta. Enjoy.

Hey I have a shitlist. Thought most people did.

Maybe he has been taken over by aliens?

or he's had a personality-bypass on the NHS

You can't have light hearted posts on mumsnet!

Maybe he was drunk when he sent the email and his natural self is still twattish. I know it's early but it is nearly Christmas.

Everyone's got a shitlist haven't they?!
nb I'm also on the PTA 😂

who doesnt have a shitlist?

is everyone in your life a bundle of delight?

I don't have one Wishful why would any normal adult need one? It's genuinely beyond me. If someone's not nice, I just avoid them.

I've got a shitlist. Hate it when they're being all nice and reasonable.

Also for clarification, ex-PTA

'Normal' nice

He's up to something.... you watch, he will ask for something that you can't say no to cos he sent you such a nice email

Yep, fully grown up, and yes, a shitlist. It's how I know who to avoid.

I'm grown up and I have a shitlist

Sometimes you just can't avoid people

I'm torn between and at the scolders

OP. be worried. He's going to ask you for a favour

How can you have enough people you don't like for a LIST though?

I'm 45 and know ONE person who is not someone I want in my life....because she's mean and a bit scary.

I volunteer for the local residents association and the pta. I have a very long shit list.

I'm intrigued! Is it an actual list? Is it ranked? Can you be taken off and on the list or is it fixed? What sort of crimes get you added to a shit list?

I have an MN shit list. It’s not long, but there are definitely posters that I find tiresome wouldn’t want to interact with. The sooner MN introduces a ‘mute poster’ function, the better.

And yes, I am over 13.

I don't have a shitlist - I have 3 nemises

Maybe in his puny brain he thinks you're the asshole and is trying to kill you with kindness? There's only one person I seriously do not like because she's mean and hates me so I've been sickly sweet to her for a year or so now and it's thrown her

Oh he definitely thinks I'm a problem, Troubled. He's on my list and I'm probably on his for getting shirty at me when he went to the wrong place for an event. His inability to follow a google maps link was my fault

I am a grown up and I don’t have a shitlist. Is it just people you don’t really like? I don’t need a list of those people, I just know who they are

He wants something