Or is this fate?

[missladybird]

Met a guy on tinder about 2 years ago - had a first date and things went well, but I wasn't ready to date and I chose not to see him again.

So I came across him again on tinder a couple of nights ago and his location was 'less than a mile away' - he was visiting his mum who recently moved to my street and I just happen to match with him after being off tinder for months.

We're going to meet up again but I can't help feeling that this is meant to be? Have I been watching too many romantic movies?

yes you have, but fuck it, have fun! (and don't mention the whole fate thing to him and start proposing just yet)

Agreed with DrRanjsRightEyebrow - yes you've been watching too many romantic films and definitely don't mention fate to him otherwise I have a feeling you may not see him again! Have fun on your date

No such thing as fate, its just random chance. But why does that make it any less of a good thing?

I definitely won't be mentioning the fate thing

It's a christmas miracle! A worthy modern day romantic film. Good luck op!

Well let's face if you hadn't been watching too many there would be something seriously wrong with you. Go have fun and stay safe!

You should absolutely mention fate. Also, wear a wedding dress on the date so he knows you will look good in one

Just kidding of course, have fun op

Serendipity

It’s obviously not fate - but sometimes you do end up in just the right place at the right time, in my experience. Who knows if this is one of those times or not? But I matched with my boyfriend when he was one of the closest people I’d ever seen on tinder, even though at the time he lived on the other side of the Atlantic...it was the first day I’d used it and a couple of weeks later he’d have been back at home and I’d never have even seen him...

Serendipity is the word I was looking for! Thanks Emily! I just think it's really strange that our paths have crossed again. He's a pilot so he's always here, there and everywhere.

Fate..... or he's a really commited stalker?

Have you had independent confirmation of his mother's existence?

I've fb stalked her which is as good as!

Serendipity is the word I was looking for! Thanks Emily! I just think it's really strange that our paths have crossed again. He's a pilot so he's always here, there and everywhere

You need to watch Serendipity if you haven't already! Read your post and thought of this film.

And if you've seen it, watch it again!