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Original poster

WIBU to wake DP up?

14 replies

CurlyRover · 09/12/2017 07:41

DSD and I have been up since 6:30. We normally do our shopping on a Saturday morning. This morning we have somebody coming to our house at 10 am to do a short survey to give us a quote for moving house.

WIBU to wake DP up at 8 so we can go shopping and get back in time for 10 am? Even if I went on my own with DSD I'd still end up waking him up as my clothes are I'm our bedroom.

OP posts:
Butterymuffin · 09/12/2017 07:42

Wake him and then if he's not moving fast, you two go.

Ropsleybunny · 09/12/2017 07:43

I can’t believe you’re having to ask.

NapQueen · 09/12/2017 07:44

Just nip in and quietly get your clothes. If he wakes and asks where you are going he can then choose whether to join you.

Original poster
CurlyRover · 09/12/2017 07:45

I can’t believe you’re having to ask.

Umm why? If DP gets up with DSD sometimes I've stayed in bed until 9. So I guess 8 seems quite early to wake him up.

OP posts:
BeingATwatItsABingThing · 09/12/2017 07:45

Does he need to go shopping with you?

Shoxfordian · 09/12/2017 07:45

Of course that's not unreasonable

Ameliablue · 09/12/2017 07:48

Just nip in and quietly get your clothes. If he wakes and asks where you are going he can then choose whether to join you.

This.

Original poster
CurlyRover · 09/12/2017 07:52

BeingaTwat - no, he just said he wanted to last night.

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WunWun · 09/12/2017 07:55

If he said he wanted to then what's the prob waking him?

Ropsleybunny · 09/12/2017 07:55

It just seems a simple thing to me. Surely you’re capable of making a decision on this without going online.

Sirzy · 09/12/2017 07:55

Can the shopping not wait until later?

Original poster
CurlyRover · 09/12/2017 08:35

Can the shopping not wait until later?

^^ apparently it's going to have to. It's "too icy to drive" says DP...

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Namechange90 · 09/12/2017 14:28

No need to ask, your a couple. Yes you both do your fare share, wake him love, don't ask permission

Oysterbabe · 09/12/2017 14:31

I realise this was quite a time limited AIBU but I'd have just done the shopping later too.

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