I am prepared for what I believe is called a "flaming" but one cannot help feeling a little put out. DHs perfectly charming but a little feckless younger brother has announced his engagement to an American actress. She seems pleasant enough but the wedding is apparently to be at the same time I am due to give birth! One cannot help feeling that she does not want me (and my swishy hair) upstaging her. AIBU to be a teeny bit upset?