Me and DH recently announced our pregnancy with No. 3, and all of a sudden BIL tells the world he’s planning on getting married around the same time baby is due. AIBU to feel he didn’t need to steal our thunder like this? He’s a great guy and everyone seems to love him despite him involving the family in quite a few incidents over the years, and I want to be pleased for him, but at the same time I feel like the last thing I’m going to want to do with a new baby is get all dressed up for a wedding. I haven’t even gone down the route of asking whether it’ll be a child-free wedding yet or if DC will be invited. I expect DH’s grandma will get quite a say as usual, and DH himself will no doubt have to be heavily involved. God I hadn’t even considered the stag do, no doubt that’ll be a wild one and DH will come rolling in at all hours. Anyway, just needed to vent. AIBU?