A woman in our group of mums is irritating but tolerable. Small indiscretions such as borrowing small amounts of money for this and that and never paying it back, or being bitchy about one of the mums as soon as their back is turned ( I appreciate the irony here). However, today she invited herself to a get together between me and one of the other mums, this would have been fine but she had her friends child in tow and was cursing at the poor kid (under 5). The language levelled at and about this little one was just bloody awful. I was disgusted not only with her but myself for not standing up. I know this isn't a one-off but it is the straw that broke the camels back. I'd happily never speak to her again but she's ingrained in our friendship, I could easily out her but should I?