So MIL has accused DP and I of isolating ourselves, do nothing but mess people about and it's no wonder people don't come to see us 
This is after she text us a couple of Sundays ago asking if we were in at 3pm so she could come over to see DD (1yo) and us. Fine by us - Then had a text to say 2:30pm instead. DP text saying we might still be out shopping but won't be long back. I told DP to leave the shopping, we can do it next day instead, seeing MIL is more important. DP reiterated all this to MIL. She then doesn't turn up until 3:30pm 
As she's leaving that day she says she'd like to have DD overnight next weekend and that she'll message us.
Get a message a few days later to confirm, I'm reluctant as DD had been in nursery all week and I wanted to spend some time with her. DP convinces me to let DD go.
MIL then insists on meeting halfway and dropping DD off at this point. I say I'd rather bring her to your house, settle her in and see some family whilst there.
MIL isn't happy with this for some strange reason and tells us to leave the sleepover for another time. She then changes her mind and asks us to drop DD off in the afternoon. Great that's fine.
Get a text the day before sleepover. MIL is apparently too ill to have DD. Fine ok. Later that evening she goes on FB sharing pictures of what a fabulous time she's had at the fireworks display
I'm not angry that she didn't have DD (quite relived) but I'm fuming that she accuses us of being the ones to mess people around when in fact we don't, it's her!
She wants to have DD another time and I'm in the frame of mind to say no Cheeky moose!!!