Just started divorce proceedings with H. We still live in marital house and get on well enough.
Have two DS aged 9 and 6. They are already getting excited for Christmas but I'm not because of the divorce and worrying about the future.
I'm counting the pennies with their xmas presents as divorces are expensive.
We have decided to spend xmas day just us 4, as it will be the last Christmas as a family. But after the day has gone he will be taking them to his family's for a couple of days so I will be spending most of xmas week without my DC. I know this is how it will be from now on as well.