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To tell xp to tell his mum to stick the easter eggs she got the kids where the sun doesn't shine ??

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NuttyMuffins · 10/04/2007 23:10

She has never given a toss about my kids, never sent them xmas or birthday cards let alone pressies and is an evil woman, honestly she is.

Anyway xp rings and tells me she has got them all and egg each so I say well tell her to stick the eggs where the sun don't shine.

He said they have drinks bottles or something with them, so i said well keep them at yours for when you eventually have them over, although by then they'll be old enough to drink alcohol out of them.

He said I am being unreasonable and that she only wants to give them something, but he knowsx full well that the kids are to have no contact with either of his parents at all now and that includes frigging eggs.

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powder28 · 10/04/2007 23:11

Why can't they see her?

hercules1 · 10/04/2007 23:12

I remember you posting stuff about her before. Totally agree with you there, nutty.

NuttyMuffins · 10/04/2007 23:16

Because she is an evil, bitter and twisted old woman, and cannot cope with letting people live their own lives.

She attempted to physically assult me once when I was preg with Dd1 and had just lost a twin, she regularly batters her husband and him her and their whole family are extremely weird. Their is honestly too much to list.

I tried several times when with xp to get on with them but it never happened and one minute she would admitt that I had kids with her son and the next she would pretend to people that she had 3 less grandchildren.

My youngest son would not even have a clue who they are, as they stopped seeing the kids again soon after he was born, because I refused to be shouted at in my own flat and told them to get out.

Me and their son have since split and I have told him that as far as I am concerned the kids have no grandparents on his side. He agreed as he doesn't get on with them himself, but they seem to have some hold over him.

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powder28 · 10/04/2007 23:19

ok, that makes sense then.

Not unreasonable

Londonmamma · 10/04/2007 23:20

Blimey!
If they get the eggs does that mean she expects to see the kids or could XP give them as though they're from him?

Hate to see good Easter eggs go to waste!!

powder28 · 10/04/2007 23:20

Sounds like how my gran used to be before i got older and taller than her!

NuttyMuffins · 10/04/2007 23:22

I have no clue what she expects to be able to do by giving them eggs, but whatever it is she's not getting it.

In the end I told xp to eat the chocolate as the kids have loads, and told him to say the drink cup things were off him.

She just so makes my blood boil, wouldn't pee on the woman if she were on fire.

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DimpledThighs · 10/04/2007 23:22

her past behaviour has lost them the right for this kind of Grandmotherly thing.

It is at best an attempt to make contact (which you have every right to dismiss)

At worst it is a way of becoming involved in and manipulating already difficult family relationships under the guise of her 'right' as a Grandparent.

I suspect the latter.

Aimsmum · 10/04/2007 23:23

Message withdrawn

NuttyMuffins · 10/04/2007 23:26

Oh definatly the latter DT, she doesn't know how to be involved without being a manipulative cow.

I'll tell xp that everyone on mn agrees with me, that will really please him

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powder28 · 10/04/2007 23:26

Lol @'wouldn't pee on the woman if she were on fire'

Nuttymuffins, if being on fire isnt enough, then to have someone p*ss on you would surely be an even bigger insult!
I say go for it!

mamazon · 10/04/2007 23:27

dont you just love ex MIl's

i was sent a fax from the solicitors last week asking me what ex should send the kids for easter as he knew they would get lots of choc's already (have a huge family) and he would rather get them something usefull.

i said to send gift vouchers or somnething.

got a call today saying there are easter eggs waiting at the sol's

nob head

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