Internet dating guy flaked out on me

[ShellfishBore]

Asked me on date, we chatted. Eventually date day rolls around and I ask him what's going on.

Him: I'm not feeling great so can we get a coffee rather than a drink drink?
Me: that fine, I can get there for around 7pm but happy to rearrange too
Him: yes please actually, can we? Just really tired. What are you up to fri/sat?
Me: I'm away this weekend and busy all Friday.
Him: oh what are you doing on Friday?

Am I u to be pissed off?!?

Its disappointing when you get let down, but Maybe he was genuinely tired. At least he tried to make alternative arrangements with you.
I don't think its worth throwing the towel in, yet

Yeah I get it and I feel a bit bad for sending a snotty message back. Just annoyed cos we arranged to do today about four days ago and then he didn't bring it up after - took me to prod him at 5pm

Ohhhh is this your first date from OD? Get used to it, I've been doing it over 3 years and this is very normal...

Nah I've had lots! Just he seemed to be interested/had good chat blah blah. He's a doctor I don't know if that changes things - tiredness possibly a factor? Anyway. Should I reply...?

He's not well so asked to re-arrange... he immediately tried to arrange another date. Mildly disappointing but can't see what your so fussed about. If this is your worst experience of OLD, you are very lucky!

Agreed. It was just the way I had to chase him up!

The initial chase would be annoying. But if he's a doctor then that might just be the way it is - and will always be ...