and now she has changed it to only taking my eldest (youngest had a tantrum last time so she wont take her anymore) and then she hasnt taken my eldest for the last 2 weeks because she needed to help her mates out so i had to let my dd1 down
This week she said she would take them both but at a time to suit her which happened to be when dd2 is having her afternoon nap so i agreed she could just take dd1 as it was then or not at all and i didnt want her let down again.
I thought they would both be out this afternoon and i could go and get their easter eggs - now they havent so I haven't been.
I guess the bit i'm annoyed about is messing my kids about so she can help her mates (who are adults) and also treating one and not the other (ok so the other is 1 and doesnt know and i admit would be more effort than taking 1) and i should be grateful she takes either of them at all.