Don't live near family but having a few days not far away. Dp rang sibling to arrange meetup. Discussed whether to meet alone or with me and other partner, who sometimes doesn't come. Dp was clear I only want to go if other partner goes. This was arranged.
On the day sibling arrives alone, partner not well. I had dragged myself out, also not well and feel fed up. If I hadn't gone I would have text.