I met a lovely guy OLD in May, was essentially a really good relationship except that he is bipolar (untreated). This resulted in a bit of an on off thing and sadly due to his depression he ended the relationship (again) at the weekend saying he felt it was unfair on me. I'm really upset and disappointed not least because we'd made lots of future plans. One of which is that we were planning to visit his home town of Lisbon, Portugal, next month. We've booked flights and are seated together. So WIBU to still go. I'd change the return flight and just book a nice hotel for 2/3 nights. It will be a little solo adventure. I just feel like why should I miss out because we're not together? I don't think the flight would be awkward. We split, not because we don't like each other, but just because of his circumstances. Obviously I'll text and ask him if he minds me going but I'm just not sure if it's a crazy plan, and whether I'm just trying to find a excuse to see him?! Who knows where his mood will be by then? WWYD? Ps Any specific bipolar advice gratefully received!