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To be upset over losing an unplanned pregnancy

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Losek · 04/09/2017 21:03

Just that really. Unplanned, awful timing, but I somehow got my head around it. Ive only known a couple of weeks. And now I know I'm losing it, I feel devastated.

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MrsHathaway · 04/09/2017 21:07

Of course YANBU. I'm so sorry for your loss. Do be kind to yourself.

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peachgreen · 04/09/2017 21:08

Not unreasonable at all, OP. I'm really sorry for your loss. The miscarriage board on here is wonderful. Be kind to yourself.

slapmyarseandcallmemary · 04/09/2017 21:09

I'm so sorry you're going through this. You're entitled to feel upset about it, just because it was an unplanned pregnancy, doesn't make it any less upsetting x much love

goose1964 · 04/09/2017 21:09

You have my sympathy, I had a threatened miscarriage with an unplanned pregnancy, and I was devestated with the thought, I'd lost him. You still bond with them.

Itscurtainsforyou · 04/09/2017 21:11

I have been in a similar situation. Horrible. I felt guilty for acknowledging the bad timing, like I'd jinxed it, but of course it doesn't work like that.
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