AIBU to think that Colleen should just LTB?

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That's it. His continued lack of respect to her and their marriage is shocking. Do you think she's on MN?

She's been quietly putting up with it for 15 years and 4 kids so...meh she must be ok with it

Is this the third or fourth thread on this now?

Sorry shatners - I looked for other threads but they didn't appear on the Active list.

When she decided to stay in the past she knew what he was like. She's stayed all this time so I don't think she'll be leaving. Maybe the lifestyle & money eases her pain....

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If she is on mn then she is the one reporting the threads when people start getting nasty

Meh. She's 30ish (with almost four DC! Eek!) Good age to get your head straight and start a new chapter.

She married him after he'd cheated on her with prostitutes so I guess she knew what she was getting into. I feel sorry for her and he's a shit but if she was going to leave him I think she would have done so by now.

If she put up with the embarrassment last time and is still with him then I don't really have any sympathy for her this time.

She married a cheater , she knew she did!

They have been together a long time. Likely the good outweighs the bad. I wouldn't break up a marriage of many years and a family because my DH did a stupid thing.

Anyway - what do we really know? We know what the DM reports. He kissed a girl - maybe. (He probably did drive while over the limit - but we don't know how much or for how long. He still broke the law and should not have done it - not condoning -and he should be punished - but lose his wife and kids??)

Many of us on here have done stuff we a re not proud of at times. I certainly kissed a few men at parties while under the influence. Stupid. We hope to be forgiven and to learn. (I was and did)