I just need a hug

[tellmeiambeingsilly]

I really just want a hug.

I'm only in my early twenties but I'm finding it so hard to find a relationship. I live in London and it's just so difficult I don't know where to meet people, online dating isn't working for me and I feel that I don't have any 'spark' with anyone I meet.

I have a charmed life, I've got great friends a good job a great social life but all I really want is a relationship and I just feel like it's never going to happen for me, which I know is silly because I'm only in my early twenties! But everyone seems settled but me.

This is such a self indulging post but the loneliness just overwhelms me sometimes

You can have a hug from me, OP. It's not silly if it's making you unhappy; we all have our panic points. You'll be fine; meanwhile unMumsnetty hugs

((((((((((( big soft hugs )))))))))))))

Hugs ❤️❤️

I was like you in my early 20s, now married with two kids I wish I had just had the confidence that everything would just work out and I should have enjoyed my singledom more.

I'm mid 20's, single and always have been. It isn't something that bothers me, but being single bothers a few of my friends.

We all have things that bother us - There are probably things that really bother me that others wouldn't think twice about! I have a very small friendship circle (maybe 3 people at most), haven't socialised since November last year, I have no job as i'm ill but not receiving treatment (long story) and I live at home.

The only one of those things that really upsets me is being ill with no treatment. Small friendship circle, not socialising and being single just don't bother me, but they would bother others.

Look after yourself

We are moving to London on Friday. Also don't know anyone. Maybe we could meet for coffee? Sorry if that's weird