Absent

[isobel79]

So we have come to my mom's today even brought dinner so she didn't have to cook. Half hour after we get here she has gone to "show her face" at a kids party. That was newly 2.5 hours ago. Aibu to think that we have come to her home and she has left us and her grandson to go to some kids party. I am sick of always putting myself out for my family. Taking the piss. And the kids party isn't even a close friend.

She didn't mention this party before you went over??

She had decided she wasn't going then she was gonna go show her face and now it's three hours later. Now she just text saying she didn't realise the time. When u got visitors I think it's bang out of order.

Just leave!

Just wait for her to visit you from now on.

We have this with ILs and they live bloody miles away. We don't go much now because of it tbh.

It's really rude. You should just go home.

I would have gone home as soon as she was rude enough to leave to be honest.

I wouldn't be sat at home waiting for her. So bloody rude!

Why on earth did you not just go home? That's ridiculous.

Well she giving me a lift back and she got my son's car chair otherwise I would have pissed off ages ago. I think its bloody out of order. Im so annoyed because my son's dad came as well and he was the one who cooked and washed up ffs. Thanks all

Take the hint and don't put yourself out to visit her again.

Unless she dropped hints about you not going and you ignored them?

She's just come back not even a sorry

Nope no hints I never intended to go to the party

Nope no hints I never intended to go to the party

Tell her she was rude!

And now we have to fricking wait while she has her frigging dinner

Not even a thank you for the dinner or thank you for washing up. Proper pissed off home now thoug