I split with my long term partner of 8 years at Christmas time. We lived together 4 years in a rented house of which we paid a deposit for. I moved out at Christmas and he carried on loving there until a month ago. We kept the house great, clean (cleaning mainly me), decorated etc and I know that the landlord has given him the deposit back.
He earned/earns a lot more than me (as in over five times what I did/do) however I still paid equally to towards the rent and bills and quite rightly IMO.
Aibu to expect half the deposit back from him, or at least a bit of it? Genuinely cannot work out if I aibu or not, but more than happy to be told that I am and just want some general views please.
For info split was amicable ish and we are on comfortable speaking terms.
Thanks!