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To keep im touch with friend or should I drop her?

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demirose87 · 03/08/2017 12:27

Hi would just like some advice please on a friendship. Been friends with a girl for about 18 months but we always called each other our best friend. We don't live nearby but we still saw each other a lot and spoke every single day. She has gradually stopped texting and ringing as much and now I can go up to a week waiting for a text reply. She stopped getting in contact as much when my partner moved in and I became pregnant. The last time I spoke to her was four days ago when I told her I was in hospital being monitored with contractions ( I'm 31 weeks pregnant). She read it straight away and still hasn't responded. Yet when she does get in touch she will probably carry on saying I'm her best mate, and how we're always there for each other. I don't even feel like we're friends anymore to be honest. Shall I just gradually let the friendship end or shall I give her benefit of the doubt?

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WashingMatilda · 03/08/2017 12:30

'Shall I gradually let the friendship end'

Sounds like she's already made the decision for you.

luckylucky24 · 03/08/2017 12:33

Its not a particularly important friendship by the sounds of it. I would just let it fizzle out.

demirose87 · 03/08/2017 12:34

Yeah, you're right, just annoys me that she randomly gets in touch now and again. She told me to keep monday free, cos wanted to go out with me and the kids for the day and she never got in touch so I haven't messaged her.

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