DP just made me feel physically sick!

[DreamingofItaly]

Ok. I don't think I am, this is disgusting and he seemed to think my reaction was funny.

We've been at our horses for the saddler to check things, DP was grooming (FYI, for context). In the car on the way home, DP BLOWS HIS NOSE between his thumb and forefinger and wipes it on his trousers. Not a full on blow, but not exactly a wipe either. I told him he was disgusting, he said he clearly had a hair up his nose and needed to remove it.

I'm disgusted! He says it's just like blowing it into a hanky and putting it in your pocket.

Thoughts please. Am I overreacting or is this disgusting?? (DP is 45!!)

LTB (Leave the blower)

That is disgusting.

Has he been your DP for long, out of interest?

As long as he washes his trousers soon it's OK

That is vile! What a turn off

He's a disgusting pig. Every time he tried to kiss me I'd recoil as I'd be picturing what he did. Yuck.

He's been DP for 10 years. We're getting married next year!

Vile. Eugh.

That is just gross. Something a 3 year old would do!

Ugh! Yanbu! That is foul.

Thanks for the comments, I'm glad it's not just me! He's lovely otherwise, just had this little moment that made me go ewwww!!

Meh, better than his nose dripping everywhere, that's even worse !!

It depends, was it a blow just to get rid of the hair? Or was it a 'wet' blow?

I was on a diving boat in the south of France a few years ago and after diving a woman blew her nose into the palm of her hand and then licked it!
Eeeewwww I'm feeling sick just thinking about it.
I used to have horses and I know what it's like to have hair up my nose and I wouldn't be bothered really if someone did that. There are so many gross things you have to to when you have a horse I don't see the difference.

I feel ill ... sending hugs OP

Jesus Christ , I'm gagging !

Oh my god that is gross cheers for sharing though

Well, we're his trousers already covered in horse-related debris and spdestined for the wash as soon as home? If so, I'd not be that bothered.

Wouldn't bother me. I do it all the time when I'm clipping the dog! Those hairs get everywhere!

Well, we're his trousers already covered in horse-related debris and spdestined for the wash as soon as home? If so, I'd not be that bothered.

Yeah, that's the thing here - I wouldn't think it a big deal if he changed ouf of them immediately after arriving home.

Walking around in snot-covered trousers the whole week would be digusting, but I think if he did that, you'd have already noticed, in ten years.

I'd puke. I can remove eye bogies from horses, squash horse flies, shove my hand up a sheath without blinking, but human snot makes me hurl!

were, not we're

Years ago I was with a friend mucking out her stables when she noticed something on her horses penis and started to scratch it off. Went back to hers and she offered us all a sandwich she had started to make without washing her hands!

Was trying to give my ex husband the eyes but he didn't cotton on. Still makes me gag.

Haha. I'm living some of these stories. He's not changed out of the trousers, sat on the sofa. He's covered in other horse debris too. I'm going out with the girls this eve so can't be arsed with making him change which is what I'd do if I had to sit next to him!

Myheart yes, that happens a lot, crusty horse penis. I tend to don gloves for stuff like that, AND wash my hands. Minging!

Ah the bean. I have a mare luckily :)