Since having DS2 by CS and suffering mild PND I have almost no sex drive, I have no interest in pleasuring myself or having sex with my husband (who has taken to wanking in the shower which I couldn't care less about)....
DS2 is just turned one. I think DH was hoping things would get better but they haven't. In fact last week we went away no kids and only had sex once on the first night as a drunken quickie and I couldn't wait for it to be over 
DH not pressuring or arguing about it or anything, I just feel is not normal, we had sex all the time before.
AIBU to think it's only me? What should I do?