I have a lodger, however he has heard me and my now ex partner shouted at me, this then gave him reasons to disrespect me as well
He smokes and although I had provided him with ash trays in the garden, he throws the butts in my garden and noticed that he does not empty any of them when full. Furthermore, he put the ashes on my herbs, when I asked him not to do it and to empty the pot of cigarettes butts when it's full, he told me that the cigarette ashes were "good for the plants" and Furthermore, what did I know as I do not smoke (He will be moving out as from next week)
How far can a person be pushed?