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Damm headphones!!

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Lazyginger · 13/07/2017 23:46

Each night when we get into bed DH turns his iPad on and puts his headphones in his ears And watches stuff. He can't hear me when I talk to him ..... Although tbh I've stopped bothering talking really as clearly YouTube is more exciting. I have had several conversations with him about this saying I find it very antisocial and rude.....but apparently I'm being melodramatic. Considering I had our first baby a couple of months ago, I feel utterly unattractive and like a jersey cow, I've gone from a high powered job in the city to maternity leave sometimes having just the baby for company all day and he is my only adult conversation. Aibu to think it's antisocial to wear headphones in bed? He's got plenty of other time to watch YouTube? It's making me feel rather shitty.

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scottishdiem · 14/07/2017 01:04

Depends. Did he do this before you had the baby? And does he help out with the child and house? Do you both have the same amount of free time?

When do you think he should watch them?
Do you not talk before getting to bed?
Do you want sex and he isn't reciprocating? Not sure what YouTube has to do with feeling unattractive?!

HelloPossums · 14/07/2017 01:05

YANBU Flowers I can completely understand why you're upset by it - I'd be upset by it as well. Have you been able to mention how you feel about it to your DH?

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