I swear the longer we are married the more he infuriates me. He has been away this week tues am -thurs pm. Now all 3 DC have been really poorly to the extent of having to take DD1 for her regular trip to A+E for steroids and antibiotics on tues. Then Wed I started throwing up, diaohrria high temp etc but still had to look after the children and basically put myself to bed when they went. Now DH came in tonight at 6.30pm and I said that I was taking DD2 to walk in centre as she has got a really bad cough,temp and throwing up her milk and of course only being 11wks old I cant give her anything and am trying to get rid of the bug from the house. Anyways he then starts moaning about having to put the other 2 to bed so I said ok will stay to help but then am going. As I am about to walk out the door at 7.05pm he says
'I need to see a DR I am really ill'
[me really concerned]'oh why whats the matter?'
[him] 'Ive got a tickly sore throat'
I mean WTF??????!!!!!!!??????
The reason I am fuming is because on wednesday I actually phoned him and begged him to come home as I was having to throw up in a bowl while carry the baby in a sling and DD1 on my hip and poor DS was crying at the sight of it all and also generally feeling unwell himself. We dont have anyone we can call on apart from his parents and on wed his dad was out and his mum could move with her arthritis which means I was stuck. Now on Wed on the phone he told me I was being pathetic and would manage fine. Now obviously I did but I spent most of yesterday lying on the bed with the children all around and now hes moaning about a tickly sore throat