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Original poster

My boss is hot!!!!!!

34 replies

GlutenFreeCrap · 06/07/2017 10:13

Have a new boss, I've seen him around for years but now he's actually my boss! My God he's hot!! I ve actually had dreams about him since this was announced...

Had my 121 today and I was awful blushing touching my hair... This is awful how the hell am I going to cope?
Please WWYD!!

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Sushi123 · 06/07/2017 10:21

Depends..if he has a wife or girlfriend then you need to forget about it, if he's single and you are then wait and see. He may turn out to be a wanky boss which will solve the problem

scoobydoo1971 · 06/07/2017 10:31

If you jump the boss and then no relationship develops...you risk the following:

Being labelled the office sleep-around (unfair but reality sadly).
Risking your career because senior management often do not approve of office romances.
Looking for another job as it is hard to take orders from a former lover.
Being gossiped about by colleagues and clients.

Imagine the following when you are in the throws of lusting...

Your boss on the loo after a bad vindaloo, picking his nose at the same time! On a serious note, I am the 'boss' as I run my own company and I had to sack a male employee who over-stepped the mark of our work-related friendship. We just could not work together after he declared his feelings because I rejected him gently (as happily married and not mixing business-pleasure anyway). He was bitter and snide afterwards, impossible to work with and uncooperative.

Auldspinster · 06/07/2017 10:46

I have an extremely hot colleague. Just need to try and ignore his hotness and get on with the job.

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GlutenFreeCrap · 06/07/2017 10:52

Oh yes he's married with two kids!
Same here! I'm extremely reserved/mumsy so this is not me but he's bloody irresistible!
I kid of hope he's a little shit to me so that I want out
But at first 121 he's been lovely !! Fucking hell! I want my old 60year old boss back!
Ok will think of vindaloo scenario...

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ShatnersWig · 06/07/2017 10:54

What's your AIBU?

Sushi123 · 06/07/2017 18:54

Just enjoy the view then...it'll pass

Nomorechickens · 06/07/2017 18:56

I thought this was going to be about the weather, maybe a dispute over office fans....(showing my age)

topcat2014 · 06/07/2017 19:24

@nomore - I thought that too - fans / aircon / heat = daily stress!

RB68 · 06/07/2017 19:37

Enjoy the eye candy and try not to dream about him lol

toffeeboffin · 06/07/2017 19:40

Oh boy op are you in trouble Grin

Don't fuck him, please.

toffeeboffin · 06/07/2017 19:41

In the interests of other readers, what does he look like?

TheOnlyLivingBoyInNewCross · 06/07/2017 19:44

Is this your boss?

My boss is hot!!!!!!
SmileEachDay · 06/07/2017 19:51

Definitely don't get drunk and loudly declare your thoughts during an unexpected lull in conversation during a work night out.

Only an imbecile would do that.

revolution909 · 06/07/2017 19:51

I'd enjoy it!! I actually enjoy looking at gorgeous men so... Im always obvious, blushing, looking down, slurring my speech, you name it!

Oysterbabe · 06/07/2017 20:01

Just don't tell anyone you think he's hot.
I made a mistake of telling a friend how smoking hot I thought some new guy at work was, he then got drunk and told him. A few days later we happened to be walking out of the office at the same time and I asked him if he was doing anything fun at the weekend and he was like "My girlfriend told me to buy pasta" and scurried away.

Rainybo · 06/07/2017 20:17

I had a hot boss...now my DP...just sayin' 😉

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GlutenFreeCrap · 06/07/2017 20:51

I've already told couple of girlfriends from work. He is bloody hot especially comparing to previous boss so they are all coming over to check him out!!!
This one is very similar I fully appreciate not everyone's cup of tea ! He's actually a combination of this and Lotan from Big brother face not body!

My boss is hot!!!!!!
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GlutenFreeCrap · 06/07/2017 20:53

Rainy too late.... I have a Dh!!! although I wouldn't mind a double

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VeryButchyRestingFace · 06/07/2017 20:56

I've already told couple of girlfriends from work

You clearly enjoy high risk situations. Shock

Cailleach666 · 06/07/2017 21:13

OP- you have a DH and you have told a few workmates that you fancy your boss.

How would you feel if the situation was reversed- that your OH fancied a work mate and told a few of his colleagues?

revolution909 · 06/07/2017 21:16

But isn't the OP appreciating his looks? She doesn't want to run away with him / have an affair

Cailleach666 · 06/07/2017 21:18

Then why tell colleagues?

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GlutenFreeCrap · 06/07/2017 21:24

Eh! Firstly I have eyes, I'm human and that's why I have girlfriends for! Doesn't mean I ll have an affair with the guy! And I disnt exactly use the same content as here!
Yup Dh can do the same !

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Freshprincess · 06/07/2017 21:24

you've told people? Shock everyone is going to find out. You might as well write 'gluten hearts sexy boss' on your notepad.

And just to reiterate wHat an earlier poster said, don't get steaming drunk at the work Christmas do and tell him. That's just what crazy people do.

revolution909 · 06/07/2017 21:26

In the office one of the managers was hot and a flirt. Everybody knew half of the female workforce fancied him. I don't think anybody cared in the end...