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to get annoyed when DH refuses to make a decision on stupid little things?!!

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purplebunnydishwasher · 23/03/2007 12:05

I choose what to have for dinner every freakin' day. AND usually it;s ready when he gets home.
I don't feel like making the decision today. so why won't he bloody CHOOSE?!!!!

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belgo · 23/03/2007 12:05

it's annoying to have to make the decision and then get critised for it.

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Twinkie1 · 23/03/2007 12:08

I had this arguement with DH and so he left me a list of what he wanted through the week for dinner - I told him to poke it because I wasn't going to take orders from him, I wasn't a feckin waitress - he raised his eyebrows and said 'Women!'

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belgo · 23/03/2007 12:08

if you tell us what's in your cupboard, we'll decide for you

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sauce · 23/03/2007 12:10

My parents divorced over issues like this! One of my mum's chief complaints about my dad was that he could never make a decision. It was basically "whatever you like, darling" which sounds great but would get on my nerves in the long run.

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israel · 23/03/2007 12:13

Get him to make...buy the dinner!!!

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kiwinat · 23/03/2007 12:15

Don't make it tonight, put your feet up with a glass of wine and a box of choc's.
My DH is the same,

Me: What would you like for dinner?
DH: What do you want for dinner?

Me: What would you like to do tonight?
DH: What do you want to do tonight?

Me: Where would you like to go on our nxt vacation?
DH: Where would you like to go?

Argh!

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smoggie · 23/03/2007 12:18

Endless arguments in this house over me trying to get DH to make a decision about what to do/eat at the weekend, because I'm so feckin sick of doing it during the week it would be nice if he took the initiative on a w/e. Has it happened yet?....has it hell!

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purplebunnydishwasher · 23/03/2007 12:31

i've been looking forward to tonight. we've got the new bond movie to watch a bottle of wine chilling in the fridge

this is the email conversation:

Me: I'm going to hit the shops while uptown to pick up some milk and bread (what
else is new?!!)
what would my darling and wonderful husband like for dinner tonight?
your wish is my command!
xx

Him: Anything is fine. Pizza maybe.

Can you cash the cheque please.

Me: that's why i'm going uptown.
are you requesting pizza then?

Him: Not really, anything would be fine.

I'd go for Pesto as well. I like it and so does DS.

ARGGGGG

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Tortington · 23/03/2007 12:32

i dont get it - why bitch about him not makinga decision.

then make a decision yourself.

why have a dog and dark yerself?