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Am I being Unreasonable or my friend??

14 replies

ShabbyNat · 04/07/2017 21:40

Me & my daughter ,who is 18 & special needs, have apparently given our friend a migraine today!!
The back story.....
Our friend, lets call her Molly, started dating a mutual friend-lets call him Jack,, who is 12 years younger than her, on the autistic spectrum & is the son of another mutual friend!!
Molly started dating Jack even though she was in love with some other bloke that treated her like shit for about 18 months, she did like Jack!!
Mollys kids hated Jack & were very vocal about the fact they hated him, in front of Jack too!! Not a very pleasant atmosphere!! Anyway, after about 3/4 months of dating/seeing Jack, Molly ended the relationship, because of the age gap, her kids & the fact she did not love him. All of Mollys friends hated the other bloke shes in love with, because hes basically a tosser with no emotions & very self absorbed, no social skills, the list is endless!!!
Molly ended the relationship, with Jack about a month a go
For the past few days, my daughter has been texting Jack, as a friend, & Jack has been liking a lot of my daughters facebook posts, like hes always done!!-nothing at all out of order. Im hoping that Jack is not using my daughter to get back at Molly!!
Now that Molly has found out about the private texting & seen all the likes on my daughters facebook posts from Jack, not that there is anything going on!!, shes got so upset & angry, causing her to have a migraine today in my opinion, Molly found out yesterday about the texting!! What do I do to make amends?? Plus, I dont think my daughter is to blame at all, she is quite innocent-just wanting friends.
Im trying not to be biased, hence the long post!!! Is it me thats being unreasonable??

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gamerchick · 04/07/2017 21:51

Are you joking? Confused

Maybe your daughter needs to delete you and your friend from her Facebook for starters. Your friend needs to grow the fuck up.

SantanicoPandemonium · 04/07/2017 21:55

How old are you all? The only one who sounds like she's acting her age is the 18 year old.

EssieTregowan · 04/07/2017 21:58

I've read it three times and I still don't understand what you think you're being reasonable or unreasonable about.

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pinkyredrose · 04/07/2017 21:59

I think Molly has issues!

Patriciathestripper1 · 04/07/2017 22:01

Grow the fuck up all of you

SumThucker · 04/07/2017 22:02

How do you know Molly had a migraine?

ShabbyNat · 04/07/2017 22:03

That Molly is so upset about my daughter just texting Jack!!
I feel as though she is being unreasonable by being so upset & angry after she dumped him!!!
And for feeling so angry at us for the fact, after she ended it with Jack
I could understand it if Jack had ended the relationship with her!!

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PerpendicularVincent · 04/07/2017 22:06

Molly is being a twat. No one else has acted unreasonably.

ShabbyNat · 04/07/2017 22:06

SumThucker
She let me know via text a couple of hours ago

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SaS2014 · 04/07/2017 22:19

Molly is a rediculous drama queen who needs to get a grip and a life!

ShabbyNat · 04/07/2017 22:30

SaS2014
that's what I was thinking!!
but so far I think the consensus is that my daughter is the most grown up of us!!
I thought that I was being unreasonable, but it turns out I'm being childish

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ShabbyNat · 04/07/2017 22:52

bump

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ShabbyNat · 04/07/2017 22:53

any more opinions out there?????

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NellieFiveBellies · 04/07/2017 22:55

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