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AIBU to think this means anything

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Confused009 · 01/07/2017 12:20

Ok so currently in dating game.
If a guy (known for a long time) changes his Facebook profile on your birthday too meaningful flowers does that mean anything

Backstory: I know he likes me a lot (he has told others) and came close to being intimate in the past but stopped it as I didn't want to get to heavily involved at that time... now wondering if there are still feelings there?

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NerrSnerr · 01/07/2017 12:23

What are meaningful flowers? Personally I wouldn't read too much into it, if you dissected every little thing on social media you'll go bonkers. I'd wait for real signs like real flowers (or ask him out on a date yourself)


DontTouchTheMoustache · 01/07/2017 12:23

Meaningful flowers?
If you are reading so much into his actions then I'm guessing it might be that you have feelings for him. If So, just be an adult and ask him if he wants to go for a drink or something rather than second guessing his actions


gandalfspants · 01/07/2017 13:41

If you are ready to get involved and still like him ask him if he's still interested. What have you got to lose?


HappyAxolotl · 01/07/2017 14:10

Happy Birthday OP! WineCake

If you're friends on FB, see if he sends you a happy birthday message. Then you could see if he fancies treating you to a birthday drink.

Or depending on his/your sense of humour, you could message him and joke about the flowers being for you.


VladmirsPoutine · 01/07/2017 14:46

Unless you are both 13 I wouldn't read too much in to it.

Just ask him if he wants to go for a drink.


ImperialBlether · 01/07/2017 14:48

They could be flowers that another woman has sent him!


SaskiaRembrandtWasFramed · 01/07/2017 14:50

What are meaningful flowers?

If you like him, ask him out, it would be much easier than trying to read signs in his Facebook photos.


NellieFiveBellies · 01/07/2017 14:56

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DramaInPyjamas · 01/07/2017 15:02

Meaningful flowers? as in a picture of some roses and your name is Rose etc?


DramaInPyjamas · 01/07/2017 15:04

But even still, sending vague coded messages via a Facebook photo is a bit high school

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