I used a window cleaning service in the past I wasn't happy with so asked them politely not to come again. Got text yesterday to say please leave access open for window cleaner. I replied to say please don't clean our windows. Got reply 'ok'. Unhappy to return home today to find bill through door for windows. Phoned up and politely explained what happened. Man was very aggressive and accused me of messing them around. I felt intimidated but stood my ground. He called back to say they had no text and that a decent thing to do would be to pay half (I'm summarising). I agreed as I felt pressured and vulnerable. I also- more importantly- don't want anyone's wages docked. Have I behaved badly to only pay half? Feel pathetically upset.