To feel a bit pissed off

[aliphil]

One of my singing friends got married yesterday. We sing in a group of about 12-15 people (varies slightly). When she got engaged she was all excited about having us to sing at the wedding. I didn't get an invitation so thought she must have changed her mind - fair enough. Seeing the photos, I realised that she invited all the group but three of us. AIBU to be a bit pissed off? If she'd said, "It would have been lovely to have you all to sing but sorry, we don't have space" I wouldn't have minded as much.

People say all sorts when they're first engaged, then the reality (and cost) of planning a wedding sets in.

Does seem a bit unfair to just miss three people out tho.....

This is the third time I've not been invited to the wedding of someone in the group so I may be getting a little paranoid! If there's an issue with my voice or my appearance or something, I wish someone would say what it is. Though I don't think it can be my voice as I haven't been dropped off the list to do gigs.

Honestly... if this is the third time I'd be looking at how I interact with others in the group. Maybe you're rubbing them up the wrong way and not aware of it?