So I went out all of yesterday with our son, I returned about 8pm to find my husband had gone to the pub. He'd left the bed unmade, the laundry outside (it was all dry so it could have been brought in, sorted and put away), dirty dishes in the sink, and the dishwasher still full from the night before. He had the whole day to himself, he didn't need to do anything. He did go to the supermarket and bought some food for the week. I was annoyed that I got home, tired after driving for 2 hours, to find all these things hadn't been done, AIBU?