TIME FOR A CHANGE?

[Callalily1234]

Been with H (note, not DH) for 32 years. No Dc. We are both retired. I no longer love, or like him. Don't feel we have anything in common. Enough equity in property for us both to rehouse ourselves comfortably. Should I stay, or should I (BU) and go?

Yes.

Go. Not loving him is one thing. Not liking him makes it impossible.

I mean yes go!!!

I'd go. Life is too short and there's nothing to keep you together. I should imagine you'll only get more disenchanted as the years go by. But I am very independent and would be happy, I think, to be on my own.

He annoys me: just his habits annoy me......

Go. If you don't even like him you'll both just have a miserable retirement together.

And I have to put up with his brother (see earlier thread) who pees in my drive and treats our home like a cafe.....going to start packing in a mo.....thanks gals x

You both need to go your own ways and be happy and see what life brings.

Thank you my friends. I am going to leave him: life can only be better on my own...... x

Good luck and enjoy! Footloose and fancy free.

Really?

Had everyone said "no, stay" you would have put the suitcase back in the attic? (so to speak).

There wasn't one reason to stay and then you mentioned the brother! Wtf - he pees in your driveway?!