Aibu? Bloody double standards!

[BeyondTheReasons]

I like a guy who has cooled things off. I tried to keep it going but yes now I know it's not worth it.

Friend said to me you should never chase a man in a pretty mortified on my behalf way.

This is coming from someone who literally waited four months for a man who kept stringing her along saying he would break up with his girlfriend.

Oh, she dates other people's partners, she sounds really cool.
I would just ignore her OP. Not sure why your friend would try and make you feel bad.