I'm not fussy. Really I'm not. I've taken on board the old "Continentals have food, the English have table-manners" thing. Apart from strenous efforts to get DS to eat with his fork not fingers, I have always considered myself fairly laid-back about table manners. But surely an adult should not lick their plate? OK I know it's probably not morally wrong, but surely one should desist, however delicious the meal?