Hello
Aibu to ask have many of u had marriage counselling and if so how did DH/DW/DP take the suggestion? I'm considering suggesting it to DH, although we haven't been married that long we've been together 11 years. We argue about the same things again and again. We have one DC who is 3.
I find it really hard to communicate with him during an arguement without going bat shit psycho as he will ignore me, or drag up past, call me names etc. Which then makes me angrier. I feel a lot of our issues are around communication and disrespect.
DH is quite shy and attention is not ideal for him. I really don't think he will like the idea, but I feel like it's final straw. I feel a bit embarrassed suggesting it to him.