Backstory: I have a 4 month old dd and planned her christening back in Feb - gave everyone dates and asked my cousin to be her godfather, which he loved. A few weeks later his brother and fiancé announce the date for their wedding in September. All well and good! Until 3 weeks before the christening they decide to have the stag weekend on that day, and godfather being his brothers best man cannot make the christening. Ok, so was annoyed and upset by that, I gave them plenty of notice and the wedding isn't for another 4 months. It it's done now so no use holding on to anger. Now I have just received their wedding invite, and only I have been invited. Not my dh, not my daughter and I know there are other children attending. I'm fuming! And no idea what to do now. Maybe I am bu to let this bother me so much, but it really has.